Bella was with dad from 3 months old. She is a slight cat and seems to eat very little. I put cats milk and water out daily but they seem to be ignored. She used to drink from the tap after dad had shaved, so maybe she's just adapted somehow. The vet checked her over but she isn't dehydrated. She was a lap cat but is to nervous now to settle, although on the days Little Will is out she will sit near me. She has very affectionate moments and often follows me around at a short distance. At the moment she isn't a happy cat; constantly hissing when Will's around, jumping up and sitting on anything high ie the fridge and hyper vigilant but she has been loving, so in another, quieter environment the old Bella should return. I think she'd be happier in a quiet, child free house.